Surprise Your Boyfriend With Some BDSM

Gay men sometimes get to a point in their relationship where the sex just becomes boring. It happens to straight couples too, but it is not as dangerous as when it happens to gay ones. Men like and need sex, so when the relationship ends up having none of it - it's time to spice things up in the bedroom. It is time for some gay BDSM. Now, you may not think that you are a BDSM type of guy, but if you have never tried it before, how would you know? You have surely experienced some spanking here and there, and maybe even experimented with other BDSM stuff without you even knowing it.

So what if you start over? Start with gay BDSM dating and try it out with your partner. Have a hot gay BDSM hookup and see if that will help your bedroom problems. Here are a few things you could do for starters:

Visit gay BDSM personals to see what other guys are into. If you are in an open relationship you can also find a third person to help you and your boyfriend out. If not, you can browse around to get some ideas you can use on him later on that evening.

Get a lot of rope and a lot of tape. When your guy gets home, blindfold him, take him into the bedroom and tell him you have a surprise for him. Once he is on the bed, get the rope and tie him down so that he cannot move at all. Give it a shot and see how he reacts. The harder he gets, the rougher you can be.

Gay dominance can sometimes be a huge turn on too! There is nothing hotter then when two guys get together and have a rough sexual experience where one guy is in charge and the other one is submissive. Let your man take over control and just enjoy the ride - or, you can be the one in charge!

So there you have it, a few ideas that can help you spice things up in the bedroom if things are not going as well as you want them to. Experiment and find out if these new ideas will work for you and your other half. Do not let someone go just because the sex is not as good as it used to be. You can always try hard and work on it - it is not as easy to find a good match, especially if you are gay.