I Am Finally The Femdom Mistress I Want To Be

It seemed almost impossible to me that I will ever going to become a femdom mistress. I enjoy the entire BDSM scene and I love my dominant role in it, but it seemed like a too good to be true situation for me to become a respected and well known mistress. There are many femdom mistresses out there, and I could only hope to be among them. It takes certain skill and certain type of personality to be a good mistress. And let's not forget about the equipment. I love the gear and the things I get to use with my clients. So, now that I am among the best known mistresses around and I have my beloved clientele, I want to tell what I think makes a good mistress. By now, I have enough experience to talk about such things.

First of all, a femdom mistress has to love what she does. Wanting to see other people suffer is not something that makes you good at this line of work. It's not pain that you provide them with - it's a pleasure. Only a bit different type of pleasure. You should never forget about it.

Secondly, it's for the best if you specialize is something. Once you are online and you see the demand of people, you need to adjust your offer for their need. I spend a lot of time online at this site and it is where I get the ideas for purchasing more equipment or meeting with new clients. Femdom mistress and domination is not something that you can maintain simply by meeting people in bars. If you are serious about this lifestyle, spending time at this site is actually the best you can do. At least, this is something that I do all the time.

Perhaps, you should consider putting your own ad into the femdom mistress personals section. That will help you find new people who are interested in this kind of BDSM games and if you are only starting, it's a good way to do so. Don't be lazy and get to know your partners. That will give you insight into their personalities and dreams and in that way, you will become better at giving them exactly what they want. Getting to know them is essential, and doing it online is the easiest possible way. People are more free in revealing their fantasies to you when you are not actually in the room with them.

Perhaps these advice are not something new to you, but they come from my own experience and they are the things that made me what I am today - and I like it!