Five Ways to Make Your Strap On Experience Memorable

You would think that incorporating sex toys into your love life would be an easy thing, but sometimes, it can take quite some time, effort and even lots of frustration. It took my wife and me years to include dildos and vibrators into our bedroom, and some more time for the strap on to make its appearance.  We regret having lost so much time, so don’t be shy and give strap on toys a try! I’m sure these 5 pointers will make your first experience fantastic:

1) Practice makes perfect: This is the first rule we learned while researching on a strapon chatroom. Awkward as it may seem, you want to try it on first and get used to it before actually using it on your partner. Practice makes perfect and when you are having strap on sex, believe me, you want perfect!

2) Aim carefully: Don’t confuse penetration with a strap on with using a sex toy or your own penis! You will both need lots of practice and it’s best to start off slow and little by little, until both of you get used to each other’s rhythm and the addition of your new best friend!

3) Double up on the lube: Lube is fun and sexy, so use it and use it a lot! The last thing you want to experience when having strap on sex is friction or resistance (or any combination of both). Not sure which brand is best? Try the internet or ask around your favorite strapon chat!

4) Give him or her the hands-free experience: When using a sex toy to stimulate your partner, your hands are usually occupied, but with a strap on, you are hands free! My wife and I got a steamy lesson on how to make the best of this thanks to a kinky friend we met via a strapon webcam chat. The combination of strap on toy, hands and any other body part you can put into play will surely be explosive!

5) Size DOES matter: Yes, size definitely matters when you are choosing your first strap on toy, and I’m talking about both the harness and the toy itself. Make sure the harness is a good fit, too tight or too loose will make it uncomfortable and may even chafe you. Regarding the toy, start small until you get used to it and then go as big as you want!