Monday, April 30, 2012

Three Vital Points to Consider Before Jumping Into the Polygamy Scene

Polygamy may very well be any man or woman’s dream, to be able to have several ongoing relationships without having to feel guilty about it, but there are several things to consider before jumping unto the polyamorous bandwagon. I am going to focus on three key points that just might make you think twice before getting into the lifestyle and spending hours looking for companions through polygamy chat sites.

The first vital aspect to consider has everything to do with simple economics. If you think about it, dating a single person is already expensive enough and, the more people you are dating, the more money you are going to have to invest on dinners, movies, trips, gifts, anniversaries, etc. If money is not an issue for you, great; but otherwise, you may want to limit the amount of people you are dating simultaneously so it doesn’t take a serious toll in your finances that just might leave you high and dry!

The second aspect involves feelings. Sure, if you are into the polyamorous lifestyle, you already have your expectations properly adjusted but what about those people you meet in a polygamy chatroom that might be attracted to the idea of a polyamorous relationship but not actually ready to handle one? The last thing you need is to go about putting out fires between your different partners and draining your energies just dealing with the drama and the jealousy when you could just avoid it all by sticking to a single partner. Screening is a big aspect of polyamorous dating; make sure your potential date can handle the constant competition without breaking in!

Finally, let’s not forget about leading a healthy lifestyle, particularly in regards to having a somewhat promiscuous lifestyle. You are, after all, dating several people at the time and most likely having sex with them. That new person that looks so hot and sexy on the polygamy webcam chat and is so open minded just may not be as health conscious, don’t put your sexual health in the hands of others, especially when there are so many hands involved! Even if you are in an exclusive polyamorous relationship, you can never be too trusty and it’s always better to be protected.

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